Mentor Spotlight: Interview With Volunteer Mentor Betsy

Are you looking for a meaningful volunteer opportunity in Boston where you can truly make an impact?

For many caring adults across Greater Boston, finding ways to give back means seeking opportunities where personal connection leads to real, lasting change. Volunteering to mentor a young person navigating the foster care system is one of the most powerful ways to build life skills, foster resilience, and create lasting relationships.

We sat down with Betsy Kassler, a Silver Lining Mentoring (SLM) volunteer mentor of two years, to discuss what inspired her to get involved, how she supports her mentee through our Learn & Earn program, and why showing up consistently makes all the difference.

Finding Silver Lining Mentoring & Supporting Life Skills

Q: How did you learn about Silver Lining Mentoring, and what inspired you to become a mentor?

I was looking for an organization that supported youth aging out of the foster care system. SLM kept on popping up on my searches. When I connected with SLM, I knew that I wanted to be a part of it.

I had a teenage relative that was struggling with addiction. While he went through rehab and sober living, I realized his peers who had support, especially when reentering society sober, did much better. They lose so much of basic life skills and having someone there to help navigate things like getting an apartment, filling out job applications, etc., that made such a difference.

When I retired I knew that I wanted to help young people with life skills, but I wasn’t sure how I would go about it. Then I learned of SLM and their Learn and Earn program.

The Mentoring Experience & Training Support

Q: What role has mentoring played in your life, and how has SLM’s training and support guided you?

It has kept me connected with young people as well as given me an outlet for my nurturing and motherly side. Mentoring a youth in foster care has let me see life from a different viewpoint. It has been humbling!

The training was very thorough and the support that I get from my program coordinator is invaluable. The art of listening has been particularly helpful.

Lessons Learned & Personal Growth

Q: What have you learned from your mentee, and what have you discovered about yourself along the way?

My mentee reminds me how young teenagers are and that they still need nurturing even though they might not show it. My mentee has really opened my heart again to caring for a teenager even when they make it hard! I have learned how to listen more. I have realized I cannot fix everything, but by just being there I can make a difference.

SLM has gotten me out of my comfort zone and opened up a whole new phase in my life. I am reminded that I love being with young people and helping them navigate their lives.

I would like to add that me being a mentor has not only impacted me, but also my family and friends. They have become invested in how my mentee is doing and are always checking in.

Encouragement for Future Mentors

Q: What would you say to encourage someone considering becoming a mentor to a youth in foster care, and is there anything else you would like to share?

I would say do it! It will impact your life in ways you never thought possible.

Make an Impact: Become a Volunteer Mentor in Boston

Stories like Betsy’s show that you don’t need to have all the answers to change a life—simply showing up, actively listening, and offering steady guidance can transform a young person’s future.

If you are exploring a volunteer opportunity in Boston or across the Greater Boston community, Silver Lining Mentoring provides comprehensive trauma-informed training, one-on-one staff support, and an encouraging network to ensure every match thrives.

Ready to make an impact and empower youth navigating foster care? Start by watching an info session!